Fifteen Ways To Untwist Your Thinking*
Method |
Description | |
Identify the Distortions. | Use the Distorted Thinking chart on page 249 and write down the distortions in each Negative Thought. | |
The Straightforward Approach | Substitute a more positive and realistic thought. | |
The Cost-Benefit Analysis | List the advantages and disadvantages of a negative feeling, thought, belief, or behavior. | |
Examine the Evidence. | Instead of assuming that a Negative Thought is true, examine the actual evidence for it. | |
The Survey Method | Do a survey to find out if your thoughts and attitudes are realistic. | |
The Experimental Method | Do an experiment to test the accuracy of your Negative Thought. | |
The Double-Standard Technique | Talk to yourself in the same compassionate way you might talk to a dear friend who was upset. | |
The Pleasure-Predicting Method | Predict how satisfying activities will be, from 0% to 100%. Record how satisfying they turn out to be. | |
The Vertical Arrow Technique | Draw a vertical arrow under your Negative Thought and ask why it would be upsetting if it was true. | |
Thinking in Shades of Gray. | Instead of thinking about your problems in black-and-white categories, evaluate things in shades of gray. | |
Define Terms. | When you label yourself as "inferior" or "a loser," ask yourself what you mean by these labels. | |
Be Specific. | Stick with reality and avoid judgments about reality. | |
The Semantic Method. | Substitute language that is less emotionally loaded for "should" statements and labeling. | |
Reattribution | Instead of blaming yourself for a problem, think about all the factors that may have contributed to it. | |
The Acceptance Paradox | Instead of defending yourself against your own self-criticisms, find truth in them and accept them. |
*Copyright © 1992 by David D. Burns, M.D., from "Ten Days to Self-esteem," copyright © 1993.